You're sure I don't have to buy a diamond ring?

Gents, if you’re worried about getting an alternative gem like moissanite in the engagement ring you’ll be presenting to your lady, jewelry designer Kristin Coffin is here to put your minds at ease. She’s heard every gemstone-related worry in the book. Here, she gives the lowdown on what women really want when it comes to engagement rings.

Hi there, gentlemen, this post is for you. A question I’m frequently asked concerns the pressure you feel to purchase a diamond engagement ring. You want to know if it’s really, truly okay to buy a ring with an alternative stone.
Please know the pressure is felt subconsciously, ingrained through years of marketing. It’s likely not even coming from friends, family, or most importantly, your fiancee-to-be.

For over half a century, you’ve been conditioned through extremely effective advertising to think you must buy a diamond ring. The stone must be a certain size, and you must spend a few months’ salary to buy it.
Inundated by images and ads, it’s easy to think diamonds are a necessity. The good news is there are gorgeous alternatives that possess all the qualities we seek in an engagement ring.

You want a ring to be beautiful, sparkling, unique, timeless, responsible, durable, and affordable — all at once. Of the various white stone options, the gemological properties of Forever Brilliant® moissanite are the most similar to diamond.
Moissanite has that same brilliant sparkle, clarity, and crisp look that makes diamond feel timeless.

If I didn’t tell you, would you be able to tell the difference? And it’s not just about pricing, because budget isn’t the only factor we weigh when choosing a ring. Affordability aside, moissanite’s durability means it will last
for generations. Plus, it’s created right here in the US, making it a truly conflict-free choice.

In today’s engagement landscape, many couples are picking out rings and discussing stones together. If this isn’t you, there’s still a good chance your fiancé-to-be is dropping hints on sites like Pinterest or Etsy. But even equipped
with that info, you’re sometimes still hesitant to buy a non-diamond ring. It’s not uncommon for me to receive an inquiry from a fella that’s something along the lines of, “Her friend told me this moissanite ring is her dream
ring. Can I get it with a diamond instead?” I completely understand where that request is coming from. But if she wants a moissanite ring, I’d encourage you to stick with moissanite. There are probably many reasons why she loves that ring
(with its moissanite) exactly the way it is.  I’ll be honest, it’s a tough conversation to have, and it’s hard to undo the years of ingrained societal pressure.

The great news is that more and more women truly want an alternative, I swear. If your lady expresses her desire for a moissanite, it’s not just because she’s trying to save money. I know for a fact she wouldn’t sacrifice on
something so symbolic. The ring you both select should be a representation of your personal style, your philosophy, and of your special union. It shouldn’t be selected on the basis of outside pressure.

Kristin Coffin Jewelry moissanite rings in a sampling of shapes, sizes, and settings

Already have diamonds and love them? Me too! I truly believe all stones have their place, and I offer options for every type of gemstone lover out there.  Or if your other half adores diamonds and you know that, then go for it. I offer a great selection
of conflict-free diamonds as well. This post is simply intended for the gentlemen who are hesitant to purchase an alternative stone, even though their other half has seriously hinted they don’t want a diamond. It’s the post to
tell them that, I promise you, it’s A-okay to indulge her request.

Curious to learn more about other white stone options, and how they compare to one another? My next post will go into a deeper breakdown of the properties of diamond, moissanite, white sapphire, and a few other common white gems.

~Kristin Coffin